Hi everyone I figured I’d inquire here because the girl in question provides BPD so I could use your insight. We matched on tinder plus got her Snap, we’ve already been speaking for about 2 weeks, and during the last week it was kinda intense stating how we’re both excited to head out to dinner after lockdown which we’d make each other happy plus stuff around that area, Then i sent her some flowers upon Saturday because I know she prefers them and she works a hard work. On Sunday she then instantly tells me that she feels like the girl isn’t ready and it feels like a lot of pressure and her mind will probably explode and she offered to pay myself back for the flowers but We said no, which I thought has been odd, in the end she just mentioned she wants some space, I actually obliged and said I’d information her later, I then slept throughout the day (night work) she then sprang up and asked me in case was okay I said I used to be and it was good to hear through her but wasn’t sure basically should’ve messaged her. She offered just a non word reply, Then i said I’d give her several days I’m pretty sure I overwhelmed the girl as she said she may overwhelmed by her own emotions plus obviously I don’t want to do that with her, other than giving her space exactly how else can I support her in the event that she still wants to talk to myself?
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